“I Would Have Chosen Death Over s*x With My Husband” – Woman Reveals
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on Monday, January 13, 2014
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One desperate woman says why she wanted to die not to have s*x
with her husband, because she believes he was a s*x addict and wanted to
“own” her body.
My ex-husband truly believed he owned my body and that I was in the wrong if I ever denied him access. When I wouldn’t give in to his advances because I was friggin’ tired from taking care of little kids, or not feeling well, or just because I didn’t feel like it right then, he would coldly turn his back on me and heave deep sighs of put-upon-ness, and I would cry myself to sleep because I just wanted to feel loved without having to have s*x.”
She admits that there were warning signs in the beginning that she had failed to take seriously:
“One of the red flags I had ignored early on in our relationship was his comment that there was no point in touching if it wasn’t going to lead to s*x.”
She revealed that her then-husband would tell her he was being considerate of her lack of desire for intimacy by requesting s*x once daily, as opposed to 2-3 times per day, which is truly the amount of intimacy he wanted.
“I didn’t realize I’d married a s*x addict until years after our wedding day. We only dated for a few months before we got married, so basically I was still in s*x-addict mode myself when I promised to love him until I died,” she wrote, adding a startling revelation, “Eventually, I’d start wishing I were deαd.”
The woman finally divorced her husband, because she couldn’t handle it any more.
However, many of the things she stated about him were not indicative of a s*x addict. According to Florida State University social psychologist Roy Baumeister, “Men want s*x more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it.”
Undoubtedly, both partners shall be very careful and attentive as far as intimacy issues are concerned
My ex-husband truly believed he owned my body and that I was in the wrong if I ever denied him access. When I wouldn’t give in to his advances because I was friggin’ tired from taking care of little kids, or not feeling well, or just because I didn’t feel like it right then, he would coldly turn his back on me and heave deep sighs of put-upon-ness, and I would cry myself to sleep because I just wanted to feel loved without having to have s*x.”
She admits that there were warning signs in the beginning that she had failed to take seriously:
“One of the red flags I had ignored early on in our relationship was his comment that there was no point in touching if it wasn’t going to lead to s*x.”
She revealed that her then-husband would tell her he was being considerate of her lack of desire for intimacy by requesting s*x once daily, as opposed to 2-3 times per day, which is truly the amount of intimacy he wanted.
“I didn’t realize I’d married a s*x addict until years after our wedding day. We only dated for a few months before we got married, so basically I was still in s*x-addict mode myself when I promised to love him until I died,” she wrote, adding a startling revelation, “Eventually, I’d start wishing I were deαd.”
The woman finally divorced her husband, because she couldn’t handle it any more.
However, many of the things she stated about him were not indicative of a s*x addict. According to Florida State University social psychologist Roy Baumeister, “Men want s*x more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it.”
Undoubtedly, both partners shall be very careful and attentive as far as intimacy issues are concerned
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Lisa Okeke
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